Hi and thanks for your commitment and time to develop this website. I have been lucking in the shadows of the old fmsb site and now here at the new site. I am a cuckold wantabee, and have been for many many years and have just never had the “balls”, (can a true cuck claim to ever have balls?) to move forward.
I am the male half of a married white couple that has been together ever since we were high school sweethearts, and the wife has no sexual experience other than ours.
I am looking for ideas, assistance and help in making this undying fantasy finally a reality. Anyone that would like to coach me one on one would be most welcome, but I hope to make the most of the forms and other site information. So still trying to find my way around the site and trying to get chat to work for me.
Indy, It has to start with communication. You have to find the ‘balls’ to at least bring up the idea in the form of a fantasy or even as a dream you had so the topic can be opened. Most wives are reluctant/resistant at first, but this isn’t necessarily a sign they don’t like the idea, but more often that they are uncomfortable admitting such a thing has appeal to them.
Please start a discussion in the forum to continue discussing your situation!
Scott Impens
on January 1, 2011 at 8:22 PM
I used to be on your old site and I really loved the
content. Reading about how you would befriend and train sweet
innocent wives into rulers of thier husbands cocks. Then teach them
to be complete submissive sluts for thier lovers was always
entertaining. Often I still find myself daydreaming of a dominant
like yourself seducing and training my own lovely wife. It is sites
like yours that have been my inspiration to drive me to find local
men to seduce and bull her for me like the experiences I’ve read on
these wonderful sites. Good luck with the new site and I hope that
the comments flow like a river for you.
We are fairly new to this lifestyle, I have roleplayed with my hubby in a cuckold mannor and always turned me on by it. I love to be the dominanat in that relationship and I have had my hubby wear panties for me and have him use a large black dildo on me as I tell him how much bigger it is than he is. I love to tease him in the panties and he has learned to accept this and even play with himself for me as I get pleasured. I am learning more about this lifestyle and it really excites me. I am pushing my hubby to be a cuckold and bring in an occasional lover to start and then have a dominant male for more regular play. Thank you for this article, I am going to by my hubby some of his own panties he keeps in his underwear drawer and look for the chastity device too. I love the control. Thank you
Glad to hear you enjoyed the article. It’s very encouraging that you both made it this far on your own. That demonstrates that you have the bond and communication necessary for a healthy, enjoyable cuckolding marriage. I’d love to see you post in the discussion forum about your progress or if you have questions and would like some feedback.
nbg56
on February 21, 2012 at 4:10 AM
Hi Donna
You sound like a strong, fun wife. I have a very strong feminine side and can be quite submissive when with the right womam. I have a couple of women friends that have a wonderful time dressing me up in there lingerie and encouraging me to warm up there lovers for them and I’ll tell you this, it’s truely a huge turn on for me to be there submissive “Sissy” male and there lovers really get a kick out of me stroking and sucking there cocks before and after they have sex with these fun, strong women. So buy him some cute things and see if he welcomes and embraces his feminine side. All males have a femine side and im fine with mine and you may not notice it if you saw me }:o)
Kisses
Dennis/Denise };o)
Julie S
on January 11, 2011 at 11:55 PM
So interesting??????? Why is this different than other sharing?
The primary differences between cuckolding and other forms of sharing (swinging or an open marriage) is that cuckolding refers to a sharing lifestyle where the husband remains faithful to his wife as she enjoys other men and where the husband’s sexual role is not one of leadership within the marriage. The dynamic varies among couples and can also depend on the other man (or men) involved with the couple. When involved with a Dom, the authority transferred to the wife, by the husband, is also then transferred by her, in many ways, to the Dom, leaving both spouses directly and indirectly submissive to the Dom.
A great article. All of us in this life style should read it. It is important when planning a pregnancy and to those couples that practice cuckolding occasionally.
Excellent topic! Can you share your methods in the reverse situation? What is the process when it’s the husband’s fantasy to be a cuckold and the wife is the target to be “turned”? Are you by any chance taking on any personal real time students to work with to apply your mastery of this lifestyle? If so, how do I apply??!
It’s a complex topic – one not well suited to a simple one-dimensional article, but I’ll take a stab at it since it could benefit some couples and provide a basis for other, related articles. I’ve already started writing it, it’ll just take some time before I’m happy enough with it to post it.
one thing that really struck home is: reminds him constantly of not only his submission to you/your Dom, but of his failings or abdications of rights as a man and husband.
@doctoryes48. I think you hit the nail right on the head. Part of cuckolding is the cuck submitting to both the Dom/Bull and his wife as well as abdication of rights as a man and husband.
@Useherhard, are you two already actively looking to get started in this lifestyle? If so, what have you done so far? I wrote this article about Mike and Anne not only as encouragement, but as a warning against losing sight of what’s most important about these relationships and would like to help make sure you two get started right and have a solid foundation to explore cuckolding together.
This really touched on the powerful emotional aspects of panty-submission. It is all at once extremely emasculating, a constant non-sexual reinforcement of the cuck/subs status, and carries an ever present fear of having this revealed to others.
Before we started to play with the cuck scene, my wife would occasionally make me “earn” sex with her. This usually consisted of me waiting until the kids went to bed and then throughly cleaning the kitchen while only wearing the panties she had selected for me.
My wife no longer is interested in cuck/hotwife or even Dom/sub play so I have on occasion pursued my submissive tendancies with others. My wife prohibits me for being with other women but allows me to serve Dominant Males. As a punishment for a lack of attention, a recent Dom made me wear panties to work for a solid week. The humiliation, and fear that someone at the office would notice, was extreme but I after the initial fear/excitement wore off I noticed a comfort level of acceptance of my submission. I could never really escape the knowledge of how submissive I was and after a while it just felt right.
I think when I become a cuckold, it will be very difficult to embrace the idea of chastity because I will want to completely enjoy watching my woman take another man and I don’t know that I can do that when locked up. While I’m not new to wearing panties, I think it’ll be tough for my to accept chastity.
How a wife, or her Dom choose to restrain their cuckold’s penis can vary a lot. Your wife might not even desire having your penis restrained at all, but if she does, there’s no real rule about how, how often or for how long your penis should be taken from being under your control. This makes the process of breaking you in much easier over time. I think that despite your anxiety, part of you not only expects this form of discipline, but feels it’s deserved.
cuckold.dream
on March 7, 2011 at 12:38 AM
This explains why my wife can’t get pregnant. We have tried for a long time without any luck.
We have talked a lot about getting help from a clinic donor but this article clearly indicate that this is not a very effective method since my wife will not be continuously exposed to the seamen.
Therefore the way should be to find a bull to help us.
You write that we should start this process at least 4 month in advance, however how often should my wife take the seamen orally?
The natural way of conception is often easier and more enjoyable of course, for all involved.
Not being a medical doctor, I can’t give you medical advice, of course, but can only surmise facts gleaned from what was written about this study. Your first challenge is to find someone who wants to be part of breeding your wife. You’ll want to establish that he at least has a decent medical history in his family and may want to have him screened for common problems if he can’t provide you with family history. Once you find him and are sure of his suitabitliy, you’ll have to ensure they have frequent opportunity to be intimate. While the article makes it clear that ingesting his semen is most effective, having him inseminate her naturally will also assist in helping her body become acclimated to his DNA. As to how often -that I don’t know, it just seems that the more frequent, the better.
Cuckolding is based on trust and communication, so any rules or customs you might establish should be as easily adhered to and honored verbally as through a written contract. Where the written contract has value is as a framework to help you walk through the various options and the impacts they will have. This is a very erotic experience as well, speaking as the Dom, to be involved in that process.
Hi Luvr, the message was old but still applies. I am the husband but when she is on the site i will make sure she reads all of your information and exerience.
I don’t think there’s any golden rule here as cuckold couples have many different ideas on what does it for them. I totally agree with you that a husband can get a lot out of watching; this is the absolute highest point from my own perspective and if denied this, then quite frankly, I’d lose interest rapidly. You mention that 1 in 4 occasions the wife should let the husband watch – again, there is no hard and fast rule, each couple should do what works for them.
The first time that my wife took another man’s cock in a hotel room whilst I was there to watch was, of course, a little bit of an unusual situation for her. However, she realised pretty damn quickly that I seriously enjoyed what happened, and since then I’ve witnessed every one of her fuckings. We like to think that I offer moral support and encouragement by being with her (which to large extent absolves her of any feelings of guilt), and I also offer some form of protection should the Bull (a complete stranger) get a little heavy handed.
I’ve always said that each couple has their own individual needs and will experience this lifestyle in their own way(s). As far as how often the husband should watch – that again, is up to the couple and their bull; my intent was to say that a cuckold should have the right to be present at least some of the time. I’ve known couples where the husband is always present and, sadly, have heard of couples where he’s never allowed to be present. Rarely have I seen or heard of a husband who didn’t want to watch at all, but it’s not uncommon for a wife or her bull to have anxiety about the husband’s presence. It’s my intent to say that this should be (and can be) overcome over time so the cuckold can be more involved as is befitting the role of cuckold. Many wives fail to appreciate the erotic potential of having their husband be a witness to her pleasure and his cuckolding – hopefully the community here can help those wives better appreciate what they have!
chas
on July 30, 2016 at 3:39 PM
yes, I agree each couple has and wants it certain ways, i let mey have her time with her lover and they appreciate it, as I do watching and enjoying it too, and she has an appreciation as well as I do .
I totally agree. Also, ‘Cock’ just sounds like such a masculine word and a cuckold is clearly not ‘The Man’ in the relationship while ‘penis’ sounds like that of a little boy’s which is what many cucks’ penises look like.
We have done chastity. Very frustrating and exciting at the same time. Can be humiliating when wearing one at the beach when getting out of the water 😉 I love seeing the key hanging between the wifes breasts
Some cuckolds have told me they also find comfort in being restrained. They report mentally equating the confinement of their penis as if it were being held tightly by their wife and seem to find comfort in that. Chastity certainly has its uses, but I also feel that experiencing a balance of being denied even an erection while sometimes experiencing one for hours without relief are equally important forms of submission.
a cuckold vacation is a great concept. It’s so important for the wife and lover to have quality time together and to make sure the hubby knows his place properly.Wife and lover are together as the couple, hubby takes a back seat.Hubby must accept this and the vacation allows everyone to settle in to their roles such as retiring the hub’s penis from intercourse. Great post
The humiliation is a very important aspect for me. I do not feel the full experience unless I am acknowledging that our Master is superior to me. It is important that both she and Master know that I am less a man than the Master.
I watch my wife get ready for work and I fantasize that she’s going off on a date. I amazed at how many things I thought were silly(helping a wife prep, chasitiy, wearing panties) that turn me on now and I want in the worst way.
A cuck must be pantied. This shows that he has resigned as a sexually active male. it also shows his tribute to the superior female so being pantied is both a sign of emasculation and regard for his wife. A cuck has very litle to offer-being properly pantied is one thing he can offer to the loving couple.
I totally agree. My photo is the one in another post (Pantied & Restrained) – I must wear panties and she choses which kind. From nuetral to feminine depending on her mood. It is deeply humiliating especially since I am caged and also must sit to pee.
So I am resigned and emasculated. I am very underendowed, so she is not missing much.
I also am very underendowed.She panties me when we go out and she wants me on my best behaviour.She says my tiny penis looks more natural in panties than jockies.So i have a drawer full which we have shopped for together.It just feels sooo right!
My wife’s public dating has become one of our most enjoyable activities in our cuckold marriage. She does all types of dating. She goes out with her BF for dinner, then to his place. She goes out for drinks with her lover ( another man) then to his hotel room. She likes to go out and meet men a bars, with or without me, and she like to go to the bars at business hotels to pick up men for a one nighter near us. Sometimes I go with her and watch from the distance, sometimes I’m with her, but most times I like to say home & masturbate and wait for her to return. Most times she will send me a few pics from her phone, both before and during sex with the man she is with to help me get off.
We have been married for 15 yrs, in a cuckold marriage for 6 yrs with her dating other men, and 2 years ago graduated to a non coupling cuckold marriage ( which I wanted). My wife only allows me to masturbate and as a special treat, once in a while,clean her up after a date. We both love our relationship!
I have just planned our first cuckold vacation. All 3 of us are very excited. I have just make the room reservations. My wife & her BF will have the master suite with the king bed & jacuzzi tub, and I will stay in the room next to them with a connecting door. My room will have a small single bed which is all I need since I will be spending most of my time mastrubating alone in it, either listening to them getting it on ( with the door open or locked…the lock is on their side only…so they will decide if it is opened or locked!) or knowing they are somewhere else in the resort getting it on in a secluded area. They will act as the married couple and I will be the 3rd wheel. Some of the times I will join them for dinner, drinks, and by the pool. They will kiss & make out at the pool. My wife will be off limits to me for the entire vacation. They are very sexual, and I’m sure they will be having sex mornings, afternoons, evening, and in the middle of the night. They will decide if I can watch, listen or give them alone time. They will decide if i can come to the pool and watch them make out or if I must stay in my room. I know I will be spending most of my time in my room masturbating….. Just the sight of them french kissing gives me a hard on. We all have a rule, that I’m allowed to watch all I want, but if I get a hard on I MUST leave immediately and go masturbate alone in my room. I get hard just thinking about them together, so that is why I’m in my room alone so much. I usually can last 15 minutes at the pool and 5 minutes if they are having sex before I get a hard on and have to leave and play solo, just thinking about what they are doing. The vacation is in August, so we all will be having alot of fun thinking about it before we go. I’m sure we will all have a great time there too.
Excellent post! You hit on a lot of great points.
“For couples where the husband’s inability to please his wife, sex is more aptly described as masturbation using her body” This is too true and she should be seeing another man in the first place.
What a great article. Denial and teasing is a wonderful way to keep the cuckold in a continual state of excitment for his wifes choosen lifestyle. This excitement brings about many positive and beneficial opportunities for the dynamic of the marriage.
It is foreplay for the couple though the actual sexual fulfillment will be for the wife and her lover though in many cases i’ve heard that the couple reunites after meeting with the bull for intercourse, cleaning or just sharing the events of the encounter.
It encourages the cuckolds submissiveness and willingness to participate and encourage her to enjoy her freedom and sexuality. As stated what cuckold doesn’t enjoy this attention.
It also helps to motivate him through the changes required of his new staus in the relationship especially if a Dom is in the mix.
So much more to be said about this part of it.
Great introduction, LB! As an experienced hotwife/cuckold couple, I think your contributions here will go a long way toward helping prospective couples and those just starting out find sure footing in the lifestyle. I look forward to hearing more about your journey.
Same with us. My wife likes to date younger guys. I especilly get off when she is out with one of her black studs. I love helping her get ready for her dates, picking out her clothes and jewelry and even paying for dinner. I especially love listening to her tell me about her dates while im cleaning her.
With such intimacy and passion already present in their relationship, I can only imagine how things will progress with her new man. It’s nice that he’s a Dom from my school of thought, who takes pleasure in exercising your cuckolding by including you both indirectly and directly.
The first way a husband was directly included in helping me enjoy his wife happened spontaneously as she and I were making out in their pool well after midnight. As our kissing and fondling led to my cock teasing her sex, she leaned back into her husband and he instinctively held her afloat. My cock slipped inside and her legs wrapped around me while her husband kept her afloat.
I think you’ll have opportunities like this with your new Dom and I’m sure we all look forward to hearing about the sort of cuckolding i’ve long encouraged for couples.
Love this site and have been here often
Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment!
Excellent.
Love the picture where the man obviously takes over the willing wife – both smiling at the cuckold with the camera…gimme more!
I enjoyed your pages and the site extremely and i have played the cucky many times so far…
Hi. I want to learn more about cuckolding. My Hot Wife and I are headingt that way, but I believe we need some help…
Larry, thanks for visiting. If you’d like to talk about your situation, start a topic on the forum so we can discuss it: http://cuckoldmarriage.info/forum/getting-started/
my husband want me to be the subject of the “win-win” situation. Thank you for the site and i look forward to chatting with you!!!
hi juliet….so how do u plan to cuckold ur husband? :>
Hi and thanks for your commitment and time to develop this website. I have been lucking in the shadows of the old fmsb site and now here at the new site. I am a cuckold wantabee, and have been for many many years and have just never had the “balls”, (can a true cuck claim to ever have balls?) to move forward.
I am the male half of a married white couple that has been together ever since we were high school sweethearts, and the wife has no sexual experience other than ours.
I am looking for ideas, assistance and help in making this undying fantasy finally a reality. Anyone that would like to coach me one on one would be most welcome, but I hope to make the most of the forms and other site information. So still trying to find my way around the site and trying to get chat to work for me.
Indy, It has to start with communication. You have to find the ‘balls’ to at least bring up the idea in the form of a fantasy or even as a dream you had so the topic can be opened. Most wives are reluctant/resistant at first, but this isn’t necessarily a sign they don’t like the idea, but more often that they are uncomfortable admitting such a thing has appeal to them.
Please start a discussion in the forum to continue discussing your situation!
I used to be on your old site and I really loved the
content. Reading about how you would befriend and train sweet
innocent wives into rulers of thier husbands cocks. Then teach them
to be complete submissive sluts for thier lovers was always
entertaining. Often I still find myself daydreaming of a dominant
like yourself seducing and training my own lovely wife. It is sites
like yours that have been my inspiration to drive me to find local
men to seduce and bull her for me like the experiences I’ve read on
these wonderful sites. Good luck with the new site and I hope that
the comments flow like a river for you.
Thanks- I appreciate the support and intend to continue my work!
We are fairly new to this lifestyle, I have roleplayed with my hubby in a cuckold mannor and always turned me on by it. I love to be the dominanat in that relationship and I have had my hubby wear panties for me and have him use a large black dildo on me as I tell him how much bigger it is than he is. I love to tease him in the panties and he has learned to accept this and even play with himself for me as I get pleasured. I am learning more about this lifestyle and it really excites me. I am pushing my hubby to be a cuckold and bring in an occasional lover to start and then have a dominant male for more regular play. Thank you for this article, I am going to by my hubby some of his own panties he keeps in his underwear drawer and look for the chastity device too. I love the control. Thank you
Glad to hear you enjoyed the article. It’s very encouraging that you both made it this far on your own. That demonstrates that you have the bond and communication necessary for a healthy, enjoyable cuckolding marriage. I’d love to see you post in the discussion forum about your progress or if you have questions and would like some feedback.
Hi Donna
You sound like a strong, fun wife. I have a very strong feminine side and can be quite submissive when with the right womam. I have a couple of women friends that have a wonderful time dressing me up in there lingerie and encouraging me to warm up there lovers for them and I’ll tell you this, it’s truely a huge turn on for me to be there submissive “Sissy” male and there lovers really get a kick out of me stroking and sucking there cocks before and after they have sex with these fun, strong women. So buy him some cute things and see if he welcomes and embraces his feminine side. All males have a femine side and im fine with mine and you may not notice it if you saw me }:o)
Kisses
Dennis/Denise };o)
So interesting??????? Why is this different than other sharing?
The primary differences between cuckolding and other forms of sharing (swinging or an open marriage) is that cuckolding refers to a sharing lifestyle where the husband remains faithful to his wife as she enjoys other men and where the husband’s sexual role is not one of leadership within the marriage. The dynamic varies among couples and can also depend on the other man (or men) involved with the couple. When involved with a Dom, the authority transferred to the wife, by the husband, is also then transferred by her, in many ways, to the Dom, leaving both spouses directly and indirectly submissive to the Dom.
LUVR are you aware that your photo blocks out a lot of what you have to say in each comment?
A great article. All of us in this life style should read it. It is important when planning a pregnancy and to those couples that practice cuckolding occasionally.
Thanks Luvr
Very instructive.
Thanks Luvr
Excellent topic! Can you share your methods in the reverse situation? What is the process when it’s the husband’s fantasy to be a cuckold and the wife is the target to be “turned”? Are you by any chance taking on any personal real time students to work with to apply your mastery of this lifestyle? If so, how do I apply??!
It’s a complex topic – one not well suited to a simple one-dimensional article, but I’ll take a stab at it since it could benefit some couples and provide a basis for other, related articles. I’ve already started writing it, it’ll just take some time before I’m happy enough with it to post it.
one thing that really struck home is: reminds him constantly of not only his submission to you/your Dom, but of his failings or abdications of rights as a man and husband.
How true
@doctoryes48. I think you hit the nail right on the head. Part of cuckolding is the cuck submitting to both the Dom/Bull and his wife as well as abdication of rights as a man and husband.
I was really excited to read this article and want to follow up but wife seems scared to take real 1st step
this type of fun and relationship exploration is exactly what we are both seeking
@Useherhard, are you two already actively looking to get started in this lifestyle? If so, what have you done so far? I wrote this article about Mike and Anne not only as encouragement, but as a warning against losing sight of what’s most important about these relationships and would like to help make sure you two get started right and have a solid foundation to explore cuckolding together.
This really touched on the powerful emotional aspects of panty-submission. It is all at once extremely emasculating, a constant non-sexual reinforcement of the cuck/subs status, and carries an ever present fear of having this revealed to others.
Before we started to play with the cuck scene, my wife would occasionally make me “earn” sex with her. This usually consisted of me waiting until the kids went to bed and then throughly cleaning the kitchen while only wearing the panties she had selected for me.
My wife no longer is interested in cuck/hotwife or even Dom/sub play so I have on occasion pursued my submissive tendancies with others. My wife prohibits me for being with other women but allows me to serve Dominant Males. As a punishment for a lack of attention, a recent Dom made me wear panties to work for a solid week. The humiliation, and fear that someone at the office would notice, was extreme but I after the initial fear/excitement wore off I noticed a comfort level of acceptance of my submission. I could never really escape the knowledge of how submissive I was and after a while it just felt right.
Powerful stuff!
I think when I become a cuckold, it will be very difficult to embrace the idea of chastity because I will want to completely enjoy watching my woman take another man and I don’t know that I can do that when locked up. While I’m not new to wearing panties, I think it’ll be tough for my to accept chastity.
How a wife, or her Dom choose to restrain their cuckold’s penis can vary a lot. Your wife might not even desire having your penis restrained at all, but if she does, there’s no real rule about how, how often or for how long your penis should be taken from being under your control. This makes the process of breaking you in much easier over time. I think that despite your anxiety, part of you not only expects this form of discipline, but feels it’s deserved.
This explains why my wife can’t get pregnant. We have tried for a long time without any luck.
We have talked a lot about getting help from a clinic donor but this article clearly indicate that this is not a very effective method since my wife will not be continuously exposed to the seamen.
Therefore the way should be to find a bull to help us.
You write that we should start this process at least 4 month in advance, however how often should my wife take the seamen orally?
The natural way of conception is often easier and more enjoyable of course, for all involved.
Not being a medical doctor, I can’t give you medical advice, of course, but can only surmise facts gleaned from what was written about this study. Your first challenge is to find someone who wants to be part of breeding your wife. You’ll want to establish that he at least has a decent medical history in his family and may want to have him screened for common problems if he can’t provide you with family history. Once you find him and are sure of his suitabitliy, you’ll have to ensure they have frequent opportunity to be intimate. While the article makes it clear that ingesting his semen is most effective, having him inseminate her naturally will also assist in helping her body become acclimated to his DNA. As to how often -that I don’t know, it just seems that the more frequent, the better.
I think that is a great way to get your wife pregnant, ,every body is having fun and it does not cot a cent to pay the dower for the sperm
Do you think it’s important to have an actual cuckold contract to set out in clear detail what the rules of the relationship entails?
Cuckolding is based on trust and communication, so any rules or customs you might establish should be as easily adhered to and honored verbally as through a written contract. Where the written contract has value is as a framework to help you walk through the various options and the impacts they will have. This is a very erotic experience as well, speaking as the Dom, to be involved in that process.
congratulations on your site…Wife and I enjoy the lifestyle 😉
Rob, don’t be shy! I’d like to hear more about your lifestyle: how you got started and where it is today. Please post in the forum so everyone can benefit from your experience. http://b09.c06.myftpupload.com/index.php/forum/true-experiences/
Hi Luvr, the message was old but still applies. I am the husband but when she is on the site i will make sure she reads all of your information and exerience.
I don’t think there’s any golden rule here as cuckold couples have many different ideas on what does it for them. I totally agree with you that a husband can get a lot out of watching; this is the absolute highest point from my own perspective and if denied this, then quite frankly, I’d lose interest rapidly. You mention that 1 in 4 occasions the wife should let the husband watch – again, there is no hard and fast rule, each couple should do what works for them.
The first time that my wife took another man’s cock in a hotel room whilst I was there to watch was, of course, a little bit of an unusual situation for her. However, she realised pretty damn quickly that I seriously enjoyed what happened, and since then I’ve witnessed every one of her fuckings. We like to think that I offer moral support and encouragement by being with her (which to large extent absolves her of any feelings of guilt), and I also offer some form of protection should the Bull (a complete stranger) get a little heavy handed.
I’ve always said that each couple has their own individual needs and will experience this lifestyle in their own way(s). As far as how often the husband should watch – that again, is up to the couple and their bull; my intent was to say that a cuckold should have the right to be present at least some of the time. I’ve known couples where the husband is always present and, sadly, have heard of couples where he’s never allowed to be present. Rarely have I seen or heard of a husband who didn’t want to watch at all, but it’s not uncommon for a wife or her bull to have anxiety about the husband’s presence. It’s my intent to say that this should be (and can be) overcome over time so the cuckold can be more involved as is befitting the role of cuckold. Many wives fail to appreciate the erotic potential of having their husband be a witness to her pleasure and his cuckolding – hopefully the community here can help those wives better appreciate what they have!
yes, I agree each couple has and wants it certain ways, i let mey have her time with her lover and they appreciate it, as I do watching and enjoying it too, and she has an appreciation as well as I do .
Wife and I met Mike and Anne when we were simply swingers. Their relationship helped to inspire us to to a cuckold couple.
I was a little hesitant at first about the idea of chastity, but now I’m all for it and this article definitely makes it VERY appealing.
I totally agree. Also, ‘Cock’ just sounds like such a masculine word and a cuckold is clearly not ‘The Man’ in the relationship while ‘penis’ sounds like that of a little boy’s which is what many cucks’ penises look like.
….quality time is always important in any meaningful relationship. Love this post.
Nice
amazing – i would love for our marriage to get to this point!
We have done chastity. Very frustrating and exciting at the same time. Can be humiliating when wearing one at the beach when getting out of the water 😉 I love seeing the key hanging between the wifes breasts
Some cuckolds have told me they also find comfort in being restrained. They report mentally equating the confinement of their penis as if it were being held tightly by their wife and seem to find comfort in that. Chastity certainly has its uses, but I also feel that experiencing a balance of being denied even an erection while sometimes experiencing one for hours without relief are equally important forms of submission.
a cuckold vacation is a great concept. It’s so important for the wife and lover to have quality time together and to make sure the hubby knows his place properly.Wife and lover are together as the couple, hubby takes a back seat.Hubby must accept this and the vacation allows everyone to settle in to their roles such as retiring the hub’s penis from intercourse. Great post
The humiliation is a very important aspect for me. I do not feel the full experience unless I am acknowledging that our Master is superior to me. It is important that both she and Master know that I am less a man than the Master.
I think this is very sexy. Its a simple way to let the cuck know he’s just not on the same level.
I watch my wife get ready for work and I fantasize that she’s going off on a date. I amazed at how many things I thought were silly(helping a wife prep, chasitiy, wearing panties) that turn me on now and I want in the worst way.
Yes, these cuckold tears, sweet agony , so degrading. What else is left, when denied, to cry for her and love her so deeply.
Great summary of open dating. My wife does it and we both enjoy all the preparation for her. Give us both something to look forward too 😉
A cuck must be pantied. This shows that he has resigned as a sexually active male. it also shows his tribute to the superior female so being pantied is both a sign of emasculation and regard for his wife. A cuck has very litle to offer-being properly pantied is one thing he can offer to the loving couple.
I totally agree. My photo is the one in another post (Pantied & Restrained) – I must wear panties and she choses which kind. From nuetral to feminine depending on her mood. It is deeply humiliating especially since I am caged and also must sit to pee.
So I am resigned and emasculated. I am very underendowed, so she is not missing much.
I also am very underendowed.She panties me when we go out and she wants me on my best behaviour.She says my tiny penis looks more natural in panties than jockies.So i have a drawer full which we have shopped for together.It just feels sooo right!
My wife’s public dating has become one of our most enjoyable activities in our cuckold marriage. She does all types of dating. She goes out with her BF for dinner, then to his place. She goes out for drinks with her lover ( another man) then to his hotel room. She likes to go out and meet men a bars, with or without me, and she like to go to the bars at business hotels to pick up men for a one nighter near us. Sometimes I go with her and watch from the distance, sometimes I’m with her, but most times I like to say home & masturbate and wait for her to return. Most times she will send me a few pics from her phone, both before and during sex with the man she is with to help me get off.
We have been married for 15 yrs, in a cuckold marriage for 6 yrs with her dating other men, and 2 years ago graduated to a non coupling cuckold marriage ( which I wanted). My wife only allows me to masturbate and as a special treat, once in a while,clean her up after a date. We both love our relationship!
I have just planned our first cuckold vacation. All 3 of us are very excited. I have just make the room reservations. My wife & her BF will have the master suite with the king bed & jacuzzi tub, and I will stay in the room next to them with a connecting door. My room will have a small single bed which is all I need since I will be spending most of my time mastrubating alone in it, either listening to them getting it on ( with the door open or locked…the lock is on their side only…so they will decide if it is opened or locked!) or knowing they are somewhere else in the resort getting it on in a secluded area. They will act as the married couple and I will be the 3rd wheel. Some of the times I will join them for dinner, drinks, and by the pool. They will kiss & make out at the pool. My wife will be off limits to me for the entire vacation. They are very sexual, and I’m sure they will be having sex mornings, afternoons, evening, and in the middle of the night. They will decide if I can watch, listen or give them alone time. They will decide if i can come to the pool and watch them make out or if I must stay in my room. I know I will be spending most of my time in my room masturbating….. Just the sight of them french kissing gives me a hard on. We all have a rule, that I’m allowed to watch all I want, but if I get a hard on I MUST leave immediately and go masturbate alone in my room. I get hard just thinking about them together, so that is why I’m in my room alone so much. I usually can last 15 minutes at the pool and 5 minutes if they are having sex before I get a hard on and have to leave and play solo, just thinking about what they are doing. The vacation is in August, so we all will be having alot of fun thinking about it before we go. I’m sure we will all have a great time there too.
Wow, very erotic! I love it! I can picture it all now…
Excellent post! You hit on a lot of great points.
“For couples where the husband’s inability to please his wife, sex is more aptly described as masturbation using her body” This is too true and she should be seeing another man in the first place.
I meant to say: This is too true and that’s exactly why she should be seeing another man in the first place.
What a great article. Denial and teasing is a wonderful way to keep the cuckold in a continual state of excitment for his wifes choosen lifestyle. This excitement brings about many positive and beneficial opportunities for the dynamic of the marriage.
It is foreplay for the couple though the actual sexual fulfillment will be for the wife and her lover though in many cases i’ve heard that the couple reunites after meeting with the bull for intercourse, cleaning or just sharing the events of the encounter.
It encourages the cuckolds submissiveness and willingness to participate and encourage her to enjoy her freedom and sexuality. As stated what cuckold doesn’t enjoy this attention.
It also helps to motivate him through the changes required of his new staus in the relationship especially if a Dom is in the mix.
So much more to be said about this part of it.
Great introduction, LB! As an experienced hotwife/cuckold couple, I think your contributions here will go a long way toward helping prospective couples and those just starting out find sure footing in the lifestyle. I look forward to hearing more about your journey.
Same with us. My wife likes to date younger guys. I especilly get off when she is out with one of her black studs. I love helping her get ready for her dates, picking out her clothes and jewelry and even paying for dinner. I especially love listening to her tell me about her dates while im cleaning her.
Well said – I look forward to hearing how your new Dom’s role in your marriage develops.
Can’t wait for this to happen!
With such intimacy and passion already present in their relationship, I can only imagine how things will progress with her new man. It’s nice that he’s a Dom from my school of thought, who takes pleasure in exercising your cuckolding by including you both indirectly and directly.
The first way a husband was directly included in helping me enjoy his wife happened spontaneously as she and I were making out in their pool well after midnight. As our kissing and fondling led to my cock teasing her sex, she leaned back into her husband and he instinctively held her afloat. My cock slipped inside and her legs wrapped around me while her husband kept her afloat.
I think you’ll have opportunities like this with your new Dom and I’m sure we all look forward to hearing about the sort of cuckolding i’ve long encouraged for couples.
I can only hope it does. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Mary loves them too.
I so enjoyed this…
Great post and wonderful pics to accompany it!
That is just beautiful … I absolutely love those two pics and all they represent
Fantastic and instructive post…….the first image, and all it conveys, is breathtaking